Sometimes,
BIG stuff goes on in our lives,
for ALL of us!
No-one’s skips this equation, because
that’s life. We all have families,
friends, work, health, home, possibly kids, grandkids, extended family, all the
relationships with all of these, and then there’s grief, and a multitude of anxieties
about so many different ‘threads’ from these!
Considering that, it’s a wonder that we can
get through life at all! I’m feeling dizzy just thinking about it!
The fact is, we are, only human, we’re not
perfect, and cannot be ‘The perfect………….’
Enter your own word lol!
I’m no different, cos I’m human too, I’m
experienced in guiding you through, whatever, but, when it comes to myself,
like you, I cannot see a bigger picture sometimes! That’s cos I’m embroiled in my own stuff!
What I’m trying to say is, it’s okay to
feel that, it’s ‘normal’, whatever ‘normal’ is.
But sometimes, do you get that feeling,
like something is missing in the jigsaw? Or your soul longs for something, that
you cannot, for the life of you, put your finger on? Or maybe, your soul,
yearns, for so much more, and you know what you want, but just don’t know, how
to get there?
I’ve been there too many years ago, and
since! Cos as I said ‘life happens’ through no ‘fault’ of our own, or maybe it
was, but hey, there’s no judgement here.
It doesn’t matter ‘why’, if you still want to move forward, everyone can
make mistakes, and work them out, if only we were born with an instruction
booklet, but no we’re not, we have to figure it out, as we go along.
I know too, there can be so much around
shame, or guilt with mistakes, but that's our way of learning.
Sometimes, many of us never had a ‘role
model’ to follow, or come from broken homes, that give us insecurity issues –
There’s so many different ‘stories’ out there, and of course my work is
strictly confidential.
Sometimes, your inner self, needs, to talk
about everything that’s going on. I’ve experienced
those ‘big’ questions about what is, life all about? Then you hit other challenges, such as grief,
or loss, that brings so many other big questions, it’s never ending, but that's
what life is about. We have to accept
the good and bad, and deal with it all step by step.
Honestly, it is normal, you are no
different to me, we’re all learning in life, as long as we’re here! Learning and growth never stop, and as long
as most of the time you ‘feel’ happy and contented with your life, you’re not
doing bad at all! We cannot expect life
to run smoothly all the time, we are spiritual beings having a human existence!
As long as we still truly ‘feel’, and
are not ‘avoiding’ our feelings with multiple distractions, or suppressants to
escape our realities, then we are truly ‘living’.
It’s good to express yourself in whatever
way, it’s usually bad, to ‘hold it all in’, that’s when dis-ease can get a
hold.
So walk your talk, say what you need to
say, (even if you’re talking to yourself!) express your soul, because you only
get one life, make it a brilliant one!
And don’t wait too long to reach your dreams, or tell those you love,
how much they mean to you regularly.
Don’t wait, the time is now!
